Where Everybody Knows Your Name...

There is something quite magical about going to your local diner or restaurant and being greeted by familar faces.
I have a diner around the corner from where I live called Factors and on some mornings it feels like my neighborhood has jumped into my kitchen. There is Tom, our local city council member who always has something to say about how runny the eggs are and how he one day plans to run for president. (He is 76 by the way). Then there is my recovering alcoholic server friend, Neil, who checks in with me on his sobriety process every time I see him. (He has been sober 3 years now) And then Lisa, who can't wait to get out of this diner, (and finish her screenplay) who greets me with a glass of fresh OJ and always inquires about my book sales.

Maybe this doesn't sound new to those of you who live in rural communities or small towns. But I live in LA - where you don't have to interact with another human being all day long if you don't want to - because you are stuck in your cars and cursing the very existence of that stranger trying to change lanes without a signal. I relish the fact that in this god forsaken town of body obsessed and beauty fanatical people - that I can slip into the corner booth at Factors (no make up, no bra even!) and just enjoy my juice and runny eggs.

Comments

I swear I love the way you look at life, Jess! I have been going to the same coffee shop near me for 6 years and before I even get to the counter, Earle has my coffee ready for me with a warm smile. There is nothing better than just connecting with people really.

I just discovered your blog here and I am very happy that you are getting a chance to talk to us daily, waht fun!
I have both of your books and cherish them greatly!

I live in Surrey just outside of Vancouver BC Canada where i always lived.In downtown VancouverI knew everybody in my neighborhood (lots of gay men and singles) and it was fun to be recognized and feel like part of an extended family anywhere i went to shop dine or coffee.Ijust moved and bought myself a place last year and am single Miss the company and am working on getting that conection again,not as easy ,it will take time.I so get you Take car Merry christmas love,Monica

I also have a small restaurant where I know everyone and they know me. I often go at the end of a hard day, more for the company than for the food.