What do boobs, butts and toes have in common?
(drum roll...)
Cleavage!!
Would you check out the, um, personality on Salma?!
Yep, cleavage is the topic of the day and I wanna hear what you've got to say. This is for an upcoming Today Show segment on the topic (how much do I love that my work involves getting asked to speak about boobs on national TV? Seriously, I have the breast job ever.
Take a look down at your girls, then type out your thoughts about cleavage. Are you personally pro or against? What about when you see another woman in a bar, showing off two heaving mounds - desperate and unattractive or sexy and confident? How about at work? Remember when everyone freaked out over Hillary Clinton showing some crack? Does age matter? Most important, tell me what makes you decide whether to flash 'em or stash 'em.
Comment me.
Oh, and JUST KELLY, STACEY (Rampant Whistler) and GEMFIT - email me at leslie@lrdiaries.com Sweet oatmeal dreams to you...
x,
Leslie "34 B Display Case" Goldman
PS I swallowed a drop of phytoplankton today. On purpose. Don't ask.
Comments
I have always been "blessed" in the boobage, much like most of the women in my family.
Most of the time, it doesn't bother me. Sometimes I wish that I was a bit smaller so that shopping was easier. Or so that men would talk to my face ALL the time, not just a percentage of it.
I think how you carry yourself is really the key, though. I am a shoulders back chest out kinda gal, cause that is what my Mom taught me to be. I think that as you age, you have to be careful to play your best assets. If that be your bust line or your legs or your tush, you better work it girl!
What does bother me is the hordes of woman who think that sex appeal is all about how much skin you show. You can be sexy and location-appropriate all at the same time, whether that be work or a club or the gym.
Over all, me and my girls get along just fine :)
I got them! I love them! Ummmmm... they help me fill out my clothing well.
There is a downside to cleavage. It drops. So I'm enjoying them while they are high and mighty!
Just_Kelly
choosinglosing.blogspot.com
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My chest has always been an area of discontent. I developed early and was never comfortable with myself. For the past 11 years I have been dealing with an eating disorder and I know there is a direct correlation between the two.
Three years ago, at the age of 26,I had a breast reduction surgery.I would not change that for anything,however,my dissatisfaction with my chest has remained the same.To me,it looks just as big as it did then.I think this is interesting,especially in relation to body distortion etc,that I still see my chest as it was.Before surgery I always wore two bras because I was so self conscious. Now, I am legitamately smaller,even if i don't see it,and I still wear two. (who knew some aimed for the uniboob look!)
Cleavage wise, there is definitely a line that can be crossed. time and place for everything-including boobies!
Im in for loving my tiny tatas.
and not much for really bothering to push em up & out with the 'chicken cutlet things' or special water bras (the fact I need a good NON SPORTS BRA fitting is beside the point. anyone wanna offer to take me?).
they here. they small. I love em.
All I can say is I'm doing everything possible to make the cleavage go away once and for all.
Also, I'm starting to feel like I don't belong here. It's that same feeling I get while watching Lifetime.
well, considering i'd love to have them even TOUCH when i pushed em together, i think cleavage is amazing! i envy any woman that flaunts their girls, aside from the office/professional situations. and if you are elderly, and those babies still wanna come out, by all means, go for it.
i've gotten used to this preteen-boy- chest, and kinda learned to embrace it, but damn, it'd be nice to put on a low-cut top for the night and have men look in that direction.
I started having to wear a bra when I was 8 (yes, 8, and the only one in the 3rd grade), and hated it. But soon realized they got me attention, and I liked attention. Now? The thing that irritates me is that there's so much clothes I can't wear. I HAVE to have a bra - especially after 3 kids - so no little tanks or halters. I wear a weird size, too, so that's a PITA. And something that looks completely innocent and normal on someone with a smaller chest makes me look like I'm out for attention, even if I'm not.
But working out seems to make them shrink but sit higher, which I like. I'll take smaller but perkier without surgery.
On others? As long as it looks good and it's not too distracting, I don't care. It is hard to look at Salma's face up there, but if it's recent, she's got a nursing baby, and in the early days of nursing they are hard to hide no matter what!
I used to be jealous of the girls who seemed to have effortlessly heaving bosoms. I'm 21, 5'5" and 120lbs (so not super thin, but slender)... and a 34 NEARLY A. I was a full 34A when I was 10lbs heavier, but a 34A hardly gives you any cleavage either. So, I was jealous through most of my high school years, of the girls who weighed less than me and yet somehow at least a cup size fuller.
Now... I'm a junior in college. I can barely fill out the shelf bra built into my tanktops. But you know what? I can run without multiple, or even really close fitting sports bras on and feel no pain. I can wear any top I want without fear of looking top-heavy. My breasts are not large enough to hold a pencil beneath... even if they do sag, a LOT, when i'm older... they'll simply look more like the breasts of most girls my CURRENT age.
so yep, big breasts are fabulous and sexy in a way that small boobs sometimes have a hard time being, but i'll take my 34 nearly As over my roommate's 38DDs any day. they suite me just fine
I always had issues with the size of my boobs--WAY to big for my taste. So after getting teased through junior high for excessive bouncing during jumping jacks and other well-endowed boob issues, I went on a diet during my early high school years. This later turned into anorexia...which definitely fixed my big boob issue! Thankfully I'm back to a healthy weight, and my boobs have found a happy medium too :)
Ah, boobs. My ladies and I have a very complex relationship. I was a late bloomer, but I compensated by getting large ones! It was a little awkward, because within a year I went from boy-shaped to near Pamela Anderson proportions, and I was a shy 15 year-old who looked like a 25 year-old.
And I totally agree with Judy that there are some things I can't wear because they make me look desperate. (Although I will wear them at home, for my husband, lol!)
On the other hand, they did feed both of my babies. I just wish they were a little smaller. Working out can sometimes be a chore, especially when I'm teaching (I practically have to wear a turtleneck!).
Finally, I really wish guys would just get over it already. They're breasts, half the population has 'em. Grow up!
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I'm with Adrianna and MizFit - my girls are itty bitty. I always wanted cleavage (not even duct tape will take me there!) But I was a full C cup when I was nursing my kids and then I couldn't wait to get rid of them. I'll never forget a hip hop class when the instructor told us to "get low enough to show cleavage." I yelled back "I don't have any." And she answered "Then buy a smaller bra and make some." Sadly I already wear a size small bra!! The upside is that I can wear anything I want and never have to worry about looking slutty. The downside to having no fat in my chest is that in the wrong light you can see my chest bones. I've often thought I'd be perfectly happy with my weight if I could just relocate it properly! I envy your "B's"!!
Boobs - the bane of my existence - and my favorite asset.
I love my boobs when I'm trying to go out & look all sexy. I know that the rest of my outfit doesn't matter if I show a little of the girls- and a little is usually all I show.
I dislike my boobs when I want to buy dresses, or coats - or anything that isn't made for 34E boobs & a size 4 bottom half. I have to squeeze myself into size 8 dresses, which tent unnaturally.
I hate my boobs when I need workout wear - especially sports bras. I need a LOT of support to run - and the few bras that provide that support are hella expensive AND ugly. I mean not just ugly in a "structural beam vs. decorative column" way - but ugly in a "since you're so gigantic, we've decided to eliminate anything pretty - like fun colors or patterns."
My dream is a breast reduction - even if that scares my poor husband (he swears he loves me for more than my boobs).
I think the bottom line is the grass is often greener. Or else, everyone should get to be a "C" cup.
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I had nothing until I had kids, and now I can't get rid of them! i don't like cleavage...it gets in my way and requires me to "double bag" them when I am running. (wearing 2 sport bras)
I long to be like Katie Holmes, who apparently ran a marathon sans bra. :)
There ain't enough wonderbra in the world to grace Cara with cleavage, my boobage is rather modest, and the first place from where weight is lost, but unlike most girls, I had no desire to be particularly blessed in the boobage area. I'd possibly be in better proportion with a more ample bosom but I'm happy enough with my little girls...and I'm hoping that they'll be less likely to be hit by gravity in later years too!
If a girl wants to be out and about with her cleavage on full display, if it makes her feel pretty and empowered then why on earth shouldn't she?! But I'm afraid she must realise that she bears a certain responsibility when presenting such a picture, and she won't be able to control where men's attention is directed.
Even the most gentle of men will struggle to be anything but distracted when faced by a rack akin to sultry Salma.
My girls have seen it all - A, B, C...we stop there on the alphabet but who knows after I have kids.
I have to say I luuurve my cleavage. In my skinny eating disordered days, I thought big boobs = fat. I couldn't even wear a push-up bra on Halloween (hello, slutty angel!) because it made me feel huge. I consider it a good sign that I no longer think that way.
I don't have a problem with cleavage (though I prefer not to flaunt mine at family reunions and Sunday mass) so long as women know that men are gonna stare (sometimes women, too) and unfortunately some people will judge. But, hey, if someone is confident - rock it out!
I'll be honest, though - I'd be a little taken aback if granny wanted to flaunt hers. I know that sounds horrible. I'll probably change my mind about that in 50 years. :-)
My tatas have been all over the chart. I spent much of the past five years as a DD, and thank goodness mine have shrunk to a nice C. I have to say that I do a little Hillary Clinton cleavage flashing, because it's just inappropriate to do much more at work. But I think that having big boobies for much of my adult life (can I say boobies and adult in the same sentence?) makes me shy when it comes to showing cleavage.
Me and my girls have had a tumultuous journey since they arrived on the scene at age 10. Blessed with big girls from both sides of the family meant life was not really that easy. It's never fun being a 32DD at 14 years old.
At 15 I had a breast reduction and it was the best thing I ever did. I'm technically still a 32D but the shape is completely different and it suits me. I still don't have trouble creating the cleavage so it's now the best of both worlds ... sometimes. I am losing it slowly now that I'm working out more and I kinda miss it.
I have to say though, when I see girls out with their girls OUT, I don't think it's sexy. I think too often it looks cheap. SOME cleavage is sexy - having the girls popping out is not. JMO. Heck, even I get distracted sometimes and I'm definitely not male.
I have a love/hate relationship with boobs. I'm told that I'm blessed to have such naturally perky ones - they're only a 34B, but stand up quite nicely on their own at 33 (I seldom wear bras). My husband is wild over this, my mother is jealous. But if I had my way, I'd shrink these babies down.
The reason? I find boobs to be, well, kind of ugly. Unless I'm nursing, they're mounds of unnecessary fat, poised front and center for the ogling. Clothes don't fit me as nicely as they do women with boy-shape bodies, and they tend to add a few pounds to my silhouette if I'm not wearing a top that nips at the waist to balance my proportions.
Men, however, always disagree with me- and perhaps that's half the rub (no pun intended). Loving boobs has always been an esthetic preference for men - and somehow, it's become a "beautiful, sexy attribute" that can trump sultry eyes, a defining collarbone, or even one's mind.
Of course, this is how I feel now. When I'm 50, I'm sure I'll consider myself an ingrate in retrospect.
A couple of nights ago at the bar my boyfriend threw a piece of popcorn at me (classy, yes) and, well, let's just say that though I was trying to catch it in my mouth, I was almost more pleased at where it ended up. It fell down my cleavage! I don't even have cleavage, or so I usually think, but that lovely little piece of buttery goodness wanted me to know otherwise, diving down the small but nonetheless present crevasse that is my cleavage.
So, all that is to say that as a small chested woman, I get excited when there is some indication that I have a bit of that which seems to define us. Bosoms. Tatas. Girls. Knockers.
Isn't it interesting that I said that our breasts define us? Do they? Should they? They certainly have a lot to do with motherhood, but what about those women who decide to adopt or not to breastfeed? They certainly have something to do with sex appeal, but what of the guys (my popcorn-throwing boyfriend among them), who claim a t-shirt to be sexier than a boobie showing get up?
If you're confident, sure, show it off! But there's also a time and place for it- ie. don't go around the office with your boobs hanging out.
The good thing about being an A cup (damn exercise making me lose a size... sigh) is that I can wear low cut shirts all the time without it seeming overly provocative, because there's no cleavage there. So it seems unfair that I should be able to wear low cut shirts whereas someone with bigger boobs would be looked at with disapproval for wearing a similar shirt- we should alls be proud of whats we got:)
I'm looking down at the top I'm wearing right now. It's a reasonably low-cut v-neck. And even though I'm wearing a scarf that largely covers what the shirt doesn't, I have to consider that, if it weren't for my barely B cup girls sleeping soundly in the brand new Victoria's Secret Biofit that I just got them last weekend (they love it in there, by the way - highly recommend), I might not be able to get away with wearing this shirt to work for fear of being deemed inappropriate. Is it discrimination that this exact same shirt on a woman with a D cup (maybe even a C) would probably be a dress code violation, or get her ogled left and right?
I'm kind of like Kristina, though. I don't think about my own boobs much because I've never really been a huge fan of them. Having a rather small pair on top of a pretty huge ribcage is just not a flattering combination. But I would hope that the same discretion that prevents me from going out braless would also dictate the D+ girls in their choices. It's all about awareness.
I have some pretty significant boobage going on here. And I'm not against showing cleavage, but I think that often it doesn't add to attraction. Sometimes it looks desperate or trashy. Sometimes it does come off well, depending on the outfit, but I think that has to do more with confidence and conduct than the cleavage itself.
I can't wear shirts that cover up to my chin, because it makes my chest look huge. So I stick with V-neck shirts, and I have to layer with camis a lot. And there are tons of things I can't wear, like all those pretty back-baring dresses with halter tops. Because there's no way that I could wear it without a bra, I'd be flopping all over the place.
So, my verdict is that a little cleavage is fine and nothing to get shocked or offended over, but too much can be over the top.
Personally, I think my breasts are perfect: 32 C, just enough for curve, not too much (except in stupid button down shirts that ALWAYS gape open). And because I love them so, I am pro cleavage generally. My rule of thumb is slight at work, more scandalous when I go out. I love buying fitted tops to show them off :)
Damn, i thought i won something when i saw Kelly...
I dont really have cleavage, but i dont mind because i can wear low cut shirts without looking skanky. and i can get away with out wearing bras sometimes
Kelly Turner
www.groundedfitness.com
I am a big runner, which means I have no boobs...I'm OK with it. What I lack in boobs, I make up for in abs;)
I met you briefly at the Hard Rock on Sat. I crashed to meet Workout Mommy and Mizfit...nice to meet you as well!
I like my boobs! They are not very big at all. But I wouldn't change them for the world. They're kinda perky :0)
(phew, a bit of my body I don't hate!)
I don't mind girls getting their baps out a bit (personally I'm more likely to choose a short skirt over a low cut top), although I'm always awestruck by how men just CAN'T talk to a face when there's boobs there to look at. It's hilarious.
TA x
I am not happy to say I really don't love my own boobs as much as I should. See how Kelly said she can wear low cut shirts without looking skanky, I feel like I am the opposite. That being said, in my mind my boobs are much bigger than they actually are. I need Tim Gunn to come tell me what kind/size bras to get!
i'm a 32A and a half and i really don't mind. the indentation on my chest is my sternum, not cleavage. i used to be a 36B in my heavier days, but i don't miss it. as long as the rest of me is small, i don't mind my small boobs. :)
i have a love/hate realationship with my boobs. i had breast reduction surgery (holla other b.r. girls haha) at age 18. and i wish i would have done it sonner. 3 pounds of breast tissue were taken off of each breast, and i went down about 5 sizes. i am happy with wear they are now. it is still a little harder to pick out clothes and sport bras and such. but it's ok. it's much much better.
i do have to be a little more careful about what i wear.
but i dont really think i look slutty or skanky, just because i have bigger boobs.
FLASH EM'!!! ALWAYS!!!
I have a wonderful relationship with my cleavage, and nothing makes me feel more feminine or sexy then showing a little chest! I have modest 36 B's which are a lovely size because they aren't painful or blobby, but they sit nice and high on my chest and with the right VC bra I get a nice PA-POW in a low cut shirt! I think everyone should show a little cleavage (note, i said a LITTLE cleavage, be tasteful if you've got big ole girls!!!)I don't really care about age, women are what we are, everyone knows they are there, why try to hide them?
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If I had cleavage, I might look down at it and think something, but I don't. Though I don't like showing what little cleave I've got. I feel like my pidos might pop out.
One of my coworkers refers to inappropriate amounts of cleavage as "boob salad." Not sure how or where she coined the phrase, but I find it fabulous. Selma has some definite boob salad in that pic.
Some could say that having some extra weight means extra cleavage but less body and more boobs works best.I much prefer reading about the best cleavage then the best diet pill or simialar anyway.Sorry forgot what i was talking about now,been put off by the view.
I am a 34D and as a curvy petite girl (5 "3" and around 118 pounds)with a small waist I have a hard time finding strapless dresses that fit both my chest and around my waist. I like them becoz they give me the hourglass figure and everyone thinks I look really good in dresses. The only times when I think big boobs=bad idea is when they're fake and out of proportion to ur body or when I see girls with F+ cups on the college streaking team, ouch, painfulll!!
Personally, I absolutely love cleavage. I think it's one of the best things God created-and this is coming from a straight woman!
I was blessed with my mothers bountiful bossoms. I have a sister who was not so lucky in the boob department.
I think women should display their goods, in tasteful, situationally appropriate ways. There are age appropriate ways to do it too. Cleavage is not just limited to the younger ladies. If you're a mature lady, you have every right to flaunt your lovely lady lumps! Everyone woman, whatever age, body type, or chest size should be proud of her body and not be ashamed to show a little boobage now and again!
Very interesting reading all the comments. My "girls" have lived through a rollercoster ride. I was an early bloomer so I had boobs young-got lots of attention for them. Not the best thing when you're in 6-10th grades. I am kind of short (5'3) and at the time, my weight hung out at around 115-120. Towards the end of HS, early college, I started working out excessively, since I was playing college sports. My big boobies got small. I lost some weight and, because I had very little body fat, that's where I lost it. Fast forward 15-20 years later to age 33 and two kids.. When I was pregnant and nursing, my boobs were a little overwhelming for my frame. I looked very disportioned and many time, got asked if I had fake boobs. After nursing, my boobs are actually smaller (barely a B) but really, at least my body now looks proportioned. I think my husband enjoyed his time with the biggies but is fine with my Bs. I think it's a no-win situation. Most people want what they don't have. Cleavage or not, be proud of you!
Very interesting reading all the comments. My "girls" have lived through a rollercoster ride. I was an early bloomer so I had boobs young-got lots of attention for them. Not the best thing when you're in 6-10th grades. I am kind of short (5'3) and at the time, my weight hung out at around 115-120. Towards the end of HS, early college, I started working out excessively, since I was playing college sports. My big boobies got small. I lost some weight and, because I had very little body fat, that's where I lost it. Fast forward 15-20 years later to age 33 and two kids.. When I was pregnant and nursing, my boobs were a little overwhelming for my frame. I looked very disportioned and many time, got asked if I had fake boobs. After nursing, my boobs are actually smaller (barely a B) but really, at least my body now looks proportioned. I think my husband enjoyed his time with the biggies but is fine with my Bs. I think it's a no-win situation. Most people want what they don't have. Cleavage or not, be proud of you!
I am very proud of my lusciously large breasts and love when they get more attention then I do, even at age 50+. My mother always taught me to be proud of what I have so I am and others are too.
Yes sometimes I wish I were smaller but it works and thats all good. I never know when and if I may loose them to cancer so I show em' now that I still have em. At home, going out or even at work; as long as it is tasteful that is all that matters. No I am not jealous of other women, I applaud those that are not so self cautious that they find the need to hide them.
I think that my 38DD chest gives me confidence. When I want a little attention to feel better about myself because I just found another wrinkle or strech mark, I just slap on tasteful v-neck and head out on the town. I am not so sure it is just my cleavage that gets me attention. I think that the confidence I have when I feel sexy comes across in my demeanor and that is what is attracting attention. But the boobs don't hurt. lol. As for the picture of Selma I think that might be a little too much cleavage but to each his own. Everyone has the right to wear what they want and to be themselves.
I have them and occasionally flaunt them. My friends that don't have them, wish they did. It took me until I was 35 to be comfortable with my curvy-self. My hubby was totally delighted that I FINALLY (his word) hit this stage of acceptance. Maybe growing up in the 70's-80's led me to believe you were only beautiful and sexy if you were rail thin, wispy and flat chested. Oh- that is so not true! Mid-life definitely has it's benefits- for me it was self acceptance, boobs and all!
i love my boobs. i wish i knew how to dress them better, i mean i have a handful of tops that i love wearing but those handful can only go so far. its hard to flatter but not emphasize (unless that's the plan) 38f-size boobs.
i love my boobs. they get on my nerves sometimes like when i'm shopping for tops, bras or god-forbid a bathing suit bc i'm 14 on top n 10 below. try finding a bathing suit with those proportions.
i love my boobs. i don't let them hang out but i've been known to flash cleavage on occasion. i prefer separating the girl rather than squashing them together. but i work with what i have.
i love my boobs. if i didn't like them i would get breast reduction, but i don't have the money and i don't have real reasons, like back problems, so i won't.
i love my boobs. regardless of how i complain about my boobs i do have them and i wouldn't have it any other way. i love my boobs.
Wish I had some. I have itter bitters that don't do a thing for me or my clothes and guys don't look twice - even my hubby. I do think some women 'flaunt' them too much but hey, I guess if I were in their shoes, um, bra, I might show them off too?? Just one more thing in this lovely life we have that is not 'fair' - right?
I just wonder why people feel the need to show off their breasts? I think it is more sophisticated and sexy to dress in a modestly feminine way. A women can show off her curves without needing to flash body parts in peoples faces. I am tired of looking at other women's boobs and think it is nicer when people draw attention to their faces. When people where low cut tops they are inviting people to look at their chest rather than their face. Some would consider that to be an exhibitionist behaviour.
I like my ladies.
They aren´t exactly twins though: one is more a 38D, and the other one ready to move up from a 38C. Sometimes I wish I could sew two bras together for the perfect fit...but that´s ok I still love them and my man is not complaining either. Besides, when I lose weight they look more alike than ever...and i have to wear the 38C bra instead of the 38D.
Well looking down, today I am giving a show with some cleavage (not too much), but sometimes a big round butt in fitted pair of jeans and a lil cleavage sitting on top of a little waist and flat tum is too much for most men...and some women to handle, so for me, its one or the other. I don´t wear baggy jeans, but i definitly have a variety of shirts to pick and choose the vuluptuous look i want for the day. I mean, if u got it flaunt it (as nice and classy as possible though ;-))
The most important thing is to love yourself no matter what! It´s just a body that we have limited time in...so enjoy it, love it, and take care of it until the end.
I was always too worried about showing clevage. Then at 35 I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Now I have new perky implants. I show my clevage like a badge of honor now. I went through hell to beat cancer and be reconstructed so I might as well show them off a little!
I think it's fine to a certain degree, but when you can almost see the nipples, that's a little too much.
Most men love full and big breasts so don't be fulled to reduce them as long as you know how to dress them and keep them straight.
Most men love full and big breasts so don't be fooled by reducing them as long as you know how to dress them well and keep them straight.
mmmm to be frank. I love the cleavage very much. itis so sexy that it can turn on all the guys who love sex as sex. no pervertion please. they are nice to handle, caress and kiss mmmm what not everything we can do with that.
Mine are small, hate them, wish I actually had some. I'm so jealous of women that actualy have breast and flaunt them because I can't.
It sucks and so does life when you don't feel like a real full woman
It would be nice to actually have breasts. I am so small and big everywhere else. Being overweight, you would think you would have larger breasts.wrong. I don't know why I wasn't blessed.
well i have big boobies..they totally stand out
but i love em..
cant change it ...but i hea a lot of mi frnds complainin about not havin anithin...i guess its makes u a woman..
and am proud to be one
What happened to descency in this country. You don't have to show off your bare breasts. What happened to women with class? That is what's wrong with this world today. No morals left.
Women that bare it are not classy at all and make themselves look cheap and they are just going to attract bad attention.
Salma is already hot, she doesn't need to bare it all. Geez, enough is enough already.
I'm quite large compared to the average girl (36H) and I've always hated being big because it's very difficult to find very much that is flattering on me, especially swimsuits! Anyway, to answer your questions, I've always thought that it completely depends on the person regarding cleavage. While older, saggier and larger breasts should be left to the imagination under sexy wraps, I've always thought smaller breasts (particularly C cups and under) look quite attractive with a bit of push up and cleavage, thought that just might be me being jealous! I personally never show cleavage if at all possible. Mine are big enough as it is without having cleavage as well! I find that well-tailored shirts/suits are most flattering for curvy girls and it's the confidence you have with whatever body type you have that makes the difference in how people perceive you.
My boobs are quite small but iam happy that my man loves it, i love when he squeezes it & he loves to suck & bite...
I grew up in a family of well-endowed women, yet my cousin & I spent our teen years with tiny breasts...She was almost 6' & built like a boy, I was 5'3" with 23"w 36"hip but 32A! We often joked how ours together wouldn't make ONE of my Mom's breasts! In college, we each had rotten boyfriends who constantly belittled us for every "flaw"--including our small breasts. Mine "kidded" he'd marry me after i got implants. Bastards!
Eventually, we both left them. I was lucky; took the lesson & vowed never to let anyone treat me that way. Sadly, she developed a severe eating disorder. These days she has a "REAL man" husband, & he is helping her overcome this affliction. Bless them both!
Me? Still looking for MrRight, but at 28, my body mysteriously morphed: I blossomed from 36B to 34D without weight gain. Hello hourglass! It's been 8 years & I'm still pleasantly surprised by the "new" me. Now, a tastefully snug sweater or couple buttons open...I finally feel womanly & LOVE 'EM, but only the WORTHY get a show;)
I ahve been blessed to have big jugs, and if god gave them to me then I think that I shoild show them off. My friends get mad because I get more attention than them but hey what can I say I have them and they don't. I have more than what an average 18yr old should have and I love them so much because they get me jobs and they pay for my way through college.
A friend of mine was looking for a medical product that was hard to find. I helped him search for it and found it on HealthMegaMall.com. These guys sell an astronomical number of products. Service and prices were reasonable. Iâd buy from them again.
After breastfeeding my two children I officially hate my breasts. I've googled enough to know it could be worse, but it took a great deal of my sense of feminiity, sexuality, and security. I have been working hard to get back my body after babies, but this part seems hopeless. It makes me sad even talking about it. I'm so jealous of other women who still seem to be endowed after nursing - I went from a 36 b, to a 40 d and then now barely a 32 b -what the hay!!!
