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    <title>Year end review: The best...and worst...of body image in 2008‏</title>
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    <published>2008-12-09T03:33:39Z</published>
    <updated>2008-12-09T21:52:26Z</updated>
    
    <summary>When more people are talking about Jennifer Love Hewitt&apos;s butt than about Obama being elected the first African-American president of the United States, you know you&apos;ve hit a major hot-button issue. Body image was a big buzzphrase this year, from...</summary>
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        <name>Leslie Goldman</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p>When more people are talking about Jennifer Love Hewitt's butt than about Obama being elected the first African-American president of the United States, you know you've hit a major hot-button issue. Body image was a big buzzphrase this year, from celebs to bloggers talking about all things airbrushed, dimpled or disordered. Weighting Game was no exception. Here, I offer you a recap of the Best...and the Worst of 2008:</p>

<p><strong>The BEST </strong></p>

<p><img alt="ali.jpg" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/ali.jpg" width="300" height="202" /></p>

<p>Ali Vincent becomes <a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2008/04/interview_with_biggest_loserco.html#comments/"target="new">the first woman ever to win </a><em>Biggest Loser</em>.</p>

<p><img alt="Dara_Torres.jpg" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/Dara_Torres.jpg" width="268" height="179" /></p>

<p>At age 41, <a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2008/07/why_dara_torres_is_my_hero.html "target="new">Dara Torres </a>becomes the oldest woman ever to make the U.S. Olympic Swimming Team. We <strong>love </strong>her motto, <em>“The water doesn’t know what age you are when you jump in, so why not?”</em></p>

<p><img alt="fat.jpg" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/fat.jpg" width="65" height="90" /></p>

<p>Kim Brittingham writes <a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2008/03/how_sitting_next_to_a_fat_pers_1.html#comments  "target="new">the faux book </a><em>Fat is Contagious: How Sitting Next to a Fat Person Can Make You Fat </em>and raises America’s consciousness about our fat bias.</p>

<p>Charlotte from The Great Fitness Experiment bears all with her stretch marks…and <a href="http://thegreatfitnessexperiment.blogspot.com/2008/10/my-friend-l-and-i-have-been-best.html "target="new">is beautiful</a>.</p>

<p>I asked, <a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2008/09/food_blogging_the_newest_eatin.html "target="new">“Is food blogging the next eating disorder?”…</a>and got LOTS of responses.</p>

<p><strong>...and the WORST</strong></p>

<p><img alt="camerondiaz325%5B1%5D.jpg" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/camerondiaz325%255B1%255D.jpg" width="325" height="243" /></p>

<p><a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2008/04/reverse_airbrushing.html  "target="new">Reverse airbrushing </a>makes itself known – apparently you CAN be too rich and too thin! </p>

<p><img alt="christina_aguilera.jpg" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/christina_aguilera.jpg" width="240" height="320" /></p>

<p><a href="http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20162921,00.html "target="new">Christina Aguilera was preggers, naked </a>and on the cover of <em>Marie Claire</em>...airbrushed into oblivion and setting impossible standards for pregnant women everywhere. </p>

<p>Princess Beatrice, daughter of Fergie, the Duchess of York, was <a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2008/05/princess_and_her_bea.html "target="new">on the receiving end </a>of a low-blow body image attack.  </p>

<p><img alt="love.jpg" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/love.jpg" width="112" height="198" /></p>

<p>Jennfier Love Hewitt <a href="http://www.sheknows.com/articles/805908.htm "target="new">dared to bare cellulite </a>and the media tore into her for it.   </p>

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    <title>Have you heard??</title>
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    <published>2008-12-02T06:21:47Z</published>
    <updated>2008-12-02T18:48:01Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Weighting Game has moved to www.neversaydiet.com/bodyimage Read more here and come join us! Happy belated T-day! PS www.neversaydiet.com/lesliegoldman now works!!!...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Weighting Game has moved to <a href="http://www.neversaydiet.com/bodyimage "target="new">www.neversaydiet.com/bodyimage </a></p>

<p><a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2008/11/the_big_news.html#comments"target="new">Read more here </a>and come join us!</p>

<p>Happy belated T-day!</p>

<p>PS <a href="http://www.neversaydiet.com/lesliegoldman"target="new">www.neversaydiet.com/lesliegoldman </a>now works!!!</p>]]>
        
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    <title>The B-I-G news</title>
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    <published>2008-11-24T16:40:15Z</published>
    <updated>2008-11-24T18:39:36Z</updated>
    
    <summary>No, Palmtreechick, I am not preggers. But I DO have a different sort of bun in the oven, you could say: Weighting Game is moving!! My &quot;bun&quot; is the brand spanking new site NeverSayDiet.com, a fresh, new site powered by...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>No, Palmtreechick, I am not preggers.</p>

<p>But I DO have a different sort of bun in the oven, you could say:</p>

<p><img alt="clean_logo.gif" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/clean_logo.gif" width="342" height="56" /></p>

<p>Weighting Game is moving!! My "bun" is the brand spanking new site <a href="NeverSayDiet.com"target="new">NeverSayDiet.com</a>, a fresh, new site powered by iVillage that offers real weight-loss and healthy living solutions for women of ALL shapes and sizes who want to feel great, be well and love their body. It's really no different from Weighting Game, except you'll need to change your bookmark to <a href="http://www.neversaydiet.com/body-image  "target="new">http://www.neversaydiet.com/body-image  </a>Eventually, the link will be http://www.neversaydiet.com/lesliegoldman -- I'll let you know when -- but for now, you can also read postings by fitness expert <a href="http://www.neversaydiet.com/article/lindsay-dunlap"targte="new">Lindsay Dunlap</a>, "The Curvy Counselor" <a href="http://www.neversaydiet.com/article/liria-mersini-curvy-counselor"target="new">Liria Mersini</a>, moi, and assorted BlogHer contributors (our beloved <a href="http://www.zandria.us/"target="new">Zandria </a>just <a href="http://www.neversaydiet.com/blog-article/it-really-possible-us-love-our-bodies"target="new">posted something </a>about Love Your Body Day).</p>

<p>This new site will have TONS of readers - all of whom you can turn on to YOUR blogs via comments (c'mon, admit it, you <em>know </em>you like that) - plus fabulous, original content. Stories on anything from Yoga Booty Ballet to obsessions with peanut butter to daily workout videos ...and at the beginning of the year, I'll be the featured body image coach helping guide readers (hopefully some of you!) through the 6-week <a href="http://www.neversaydiet.com/neversaydiet-community-challenge"target="new">NeverSayDiet Community Challenge</a>.</p>

<p>To any of you who have found humor, solace, or friendship here at the Weighting Game, I <del>am begging you</del> really hope you switch out your bookmark so we can continue our relationship and keep talking about all things muffin top, airbrushing and Tree Pose. I'll likely continue to blog here in a limited capacity for the rest of the year, but Never Say Diet will be my major new home.</p>

<p>Lastly, I want to apologize to any of you whom have noticed a dearth of comments lately by me on your blogs. Now that my neck is getting better (doing the Happy Dance here would be the understatement of the decade), my hands have decided that 10 years of hunting and pecking is enough and I've got some major pain going on. I've drastically limited my typing time and recently bought <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Mavis-Beacon-Teaches-Typing-Platinum/dp/B0012VI1ES/ref=pd_cp_sw_2?pf_rd_p=433272301&pf_rd_s=center-41&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_i=B000B6JARC&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=1KKYRMKJN6XXS14NDX2D"target="new">this </a>- I kid you not, it's for ages 8 and up - to relearn how to type without looking like I'm banging out a piano concerto. Last night, I learned where the home keys are. Baby steps.</p>

<p>I love and appreciate you all so much and am grateful for your patience and dedication. It means so much to me.</p>

<p>See you at <a href="http://NeverSayDiet.com/body-image"target="new">NeverSayDiet.com!!!</a></p>

<p>Are you with me?!</p>

<p>PS <a href="http://mizfitonline.com/"target="new">MizFit </a>is letting me guest blog tomorrow! Check me/us out!</p>]]>
        
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    <title>Exciting news coming...</title>
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    <published>2008-11-21T14:25:06Z</published>
    <updated>2008-11-21T14:34:29Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Stay tuned! I wish everyone a wonderful, warm (it&apos;s 18 degrees here) weekend... x, Leslie If Hello Kitty had a mouth, she would tell you to have a fun weekend! Poor Kitty......</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p><strong>Stay tuned!</strong></p>

<p>I wish everyone a wonderful, warm (it's 18 degrees here) weekend...<br />
x,<br />
Leslie</p>

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<em>If Hello Kitty had a mouth, she would tell you to have a fun weekend! Poor Kitty...</em></p>]]>
        
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    <title>My appetite: Lost and found edition</title>
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    <published>2008-11-20T01:29:20Z</published>
    <updated>2008-11-20T02:04:43Z</updated>
    
    <summary> What do Jack, Sawyer, Freckles and my appetite all have in common? They&apos;ve all been Lost. (bad dum bum) About a month ago, I my appetite went buh-bye for a few days. The doctor had warned me this might...</summary>
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<p>What do Jack, Sawyer, Freckles and my appetite all have in common?</p>

<p>They've all been <em>Lost</em>.</p>

<p>(bad dum bum)</p>

<p>About a month ago, I my appetite went buh-bye for a few days. The doctor had warned me this might happen - I was taking a new medication for some pain in my hands (carpal tunnel? disk-related? busting out one too many cans of whoopass? no one knows) and "anorexia" was a prominent side effect.  But I'm not someone who just -whoopsies! - loses her appetite too easily (except for that whole pesky freshman year thing) so I was a bit shocked when, after three days of swallowing the capsules, I didn't want to swallow much else. What a bizarro feeling. I'd find myself wandering into the kitchen like a clueless nomad, unsatisfyingly opening and closing cupboards because nothing looked good. A full bag of caramely delicious, cream-filled Cow Tails went untouched. Not even my beloved oatmeal...or peanut better...or Swedish Fish looked all that special. I remember attending a party for a family friend and sitting at a fancy table with martini glasses full of M&Ms and I barely nursed a few. What kind of an embarrassment had I become?</p>

<p>Within a week, my hunger returned for pretty much everything except -- and I say this with a heavy heart -- sweets. Me, the girl who mixes up Betty Crocker brownie mix with water in a mug to feast on fudge sludge at 11pm. Who straps Rocky Road ice cream (light, but still) to her mouth like a feed bag. Who calls Dan on his way home from work and, filled with PMS-fueled desperation, begs him to stop at Sweet Mandy B's and pick me up a Whoopie Pie. Who finishes off her healthy breakfast of an egg white omelet and fruit with a mini Snickers bar. I didn't even eat candy corn over Halloween. I should have just dressed up as a Black Sheep and roamed the streets of Chicago with my head hung.</p>

<p>Now that about a month has passed, my cravings for sweets have returned...somewhat. And while I can still polish off a plate of espresso-cocoa mousse plus half of Dan's ice cream profiteroles (not that this happened last night or anything), in general I find myself eating less than half the amount of sugary snacks I used to.</p>

<p>This depressed me at first. I'm <em>known </em>for my sweets-a-holic nature. Cookies, brownies, birthday cake - that's my bag! But a funny thing happened on the way to the pharmacist: I've found myself taking a moment to ask myself," Do I really want a fistful of marshmallows right now?" And the answer is often no.</p>

<p>I feel like this is as close to Intuitive Eating as I've ever come. At night, if I find myself hungry after dinner, I've started gravitating toward fruit or hot cocoa or (gulp) yogurt. Yes, I fear I've become one of those crazy bridesmaids in the commercials who spoons a dollop into her mouth and says aloud, "This is "not having to catch the bouquet' good!" Um, cliche, much?</p>

<p>Don't get me wrong, I'm not becoming a treats teetotaler. I just see this seismic shift happening in my eating schedule and have wanted to vent about it for a while. So there it is. I'd love to hear your feedback - have you ever lost your appetite, maybe from the flu, or a new medication, stress or a break-up? And how did you deal with it?</p>]]>
        
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    <title>Because being the U.S. military&apos;s first female four-star general is not enough</title>
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    <published>2008-11-18T17:56:05Z</published>
    <updated>2008-11-19T05:01:07Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Airbrushing - it&apos;s not just for models anymore! Army Gen. Ann E. Dunwoody was promoted to full general on Friday, making her the U.S. military&apos;s first female four-star general. But according to the AP, in the original photo, she is...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Airbrushing - it's not just for models anymore!</p>

<p>Army Gen. Ann E. Dunwoody was promoted to full general on Friday, making her the U.S. military's first female four-star general. </p>

<p>But according to the AP, in the original photo, she is wearing a uniform with three stars on it (in reference to her then-rank of lieutenant general); in the "after" photo - the one distributed by the Army to the media - she's somehow in military fatigues, a flag waving in the background. And the three stars are gone.</p>

<p><img alt="Dunwoody1111608.jpg" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/Dunwoody1111608.jpg" width="200" height="150" /><br />
<em>"Hey Army, could you get rid of a few errant stretch marks, too?"</em></p>

<p>Now, it's not like they <a href="http://ayyyy.com/2007/09/06/skinny-betty/"target="new">gave her a lollipop head </a>or <a href="http://gossip.commongate.com/post/celebrity_airbrushing_before_and_after/photos/39228"target="new">lightened her skin </a>or <a href="http://www.stylelist.com/blog/2007/08/21/keira-knightley-they-airbrush-the-f-out-of-me/"target="new">enhanced her bra size </a>or <a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2008/04/reverse_airbrushing.html"target="new">bulked up her too-thin bod </a>or anything. But still...couldn't they have found a new photo with the four star ranking? Even though the same woman is being represented, is this misleading the public? Yet another example of how pervasive airbrushing is, how it infiltrates areas far beyond fashion magazines and shapes, consciously or not, our view of women.</p>

<p>BTW< did I ever tell you my book jacket flap photo was touched up? You know, for <a href="lrdiaries.com"target="new">my book </a>on <em>body image</em>? Yeah.</p>

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    <title>Screw the Victoria&apos;s Secret Fashion Show...watch this instead</title>
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    <published>2008-11-17T16:01:32Z</published>
    <updated>2008-11-18T04:58:25Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Don&apos;t get me wrong - Heidi Klum prancing around in a red bra and thong and 50-pound sequined angel wings sounds really interesting. A $5 million Black Diamond Fantasy Miracle Bra encrusted with white and black diamonds and rubies? Fascin-freakin-ating....</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Don't get me wrong - Heidi Klum prancing around in a red bra and thong and 50-pound sequined angel wings sounds <em>really </em>interesting. A $5 million Black Diamond Fantasy Miracle Bra encrusted with white and black diamonds and rubies? <em>Fascin-freakin-ating</em>. Not not mention empowering and practicalc. </p>

<p>If the idea of watching Giselle the Gazelle strut the runway in dental floss sounds about as appealing as having your eyes poked out with lemon juice-soaked shishkabob skewers, join me in celebrating a real woman's body...and the sleek, leotard-clad physiques of three men:</p>

<p><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/LClyXeZQTBc&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/LClyXeZQTBc&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object></p>

<p>I think my favorite moment comes during the dance sequence at 2:35 - for some reason the guy in the middle cracks me up when he shakes his tush and turns around in a circle at 2:57. Enjoy your laugh for the day...and tell me if you have any insight into where all of their junk went in those 'tards?</p>]]>
        
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    <title>Adipositivity</title>
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    <published>2008-11-16T16:01:36Z</published>
    <updated>2008-11-16T16:06:38Z</updated>
    
    <summary>I just read about this new photo collective called The Adipositivity Project, created to promote size acceptance through, as the website puts it, &quot;a visual display of fat physicality. The sort that&apos;s normally unseen.&quot; The ultimate goal? Broadening definitions of...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I just read about this new photo collective called The Adipositivity Project, created to promote size acceptance through, as <a href="http://adipositivity.my-expressions.com/index.html"target="new">the website </a>puts it, "a visual display of fat physicality. The sort that's normally unseen." The ultimate goal? Broadening definitions of what it means to be beautiful...</p>

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<p>This reminds me of a phenomenally innovative and sensitive photographer I interviewed last year for a story in <em>Women's Health </em>- her name is Holly Sasnett and she <a href="http://lrdiaries.com/docs/bodyshots.pdftarget="new">takes nude photos of women struggling </a>with eating disorders ranging from anorexia to compulsive overeating. Like The Adipositivity Project, documented by New Yorker Substantia Jones, Sasnett does not include her subjects' faces. Not because they should be ashamed, but because looking at a photo of yourself without your face - or looking at your body in mirror from only the neck-down, for that matter - allows you to take a step back and view your physique as an outside would. One who doesn't live with your insecurities or concerns or fears. I've tried this, and it really works - if I stand on my toilet in the master bathroom, the mirror cuts me off at the head and I see my body in a whole new, more objective light. </p>

<p>I love these photos because they show beauty where people often assume ugliness or regret live. I 'm not necessarily saying I would be comfortable in the exact bodies they inhabit...I'm still on my journey to love the one I have right now. But as The Adipositivity Project states, the women behind these images "are educators, executives, mothers, musicians, professionals, performers, artists, activists, clerks, and writers. They are perhaps even the women you've clucked at on the subway, rolled your eyes at in the market, or joked about with your friends. [And] this is what they look like with their clothes off." </p>

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<p><img alt="6.jpg" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/6.jpg" width="100" height="100" /></p>

<p><img alt="8.jpg" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/8.jpg" width="100" height="100" /></p>

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    <title>When healthy eating becomes an obession</title>
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    <published>2008-11-13T21:14:20Z</published>
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    <summary> Back in 2001, I wrote a story on orthorexia - an obsession with &quot;healthy&quot; eating - for The Chicago Tribune. I interviewed a &quot;recovering orthorexic&quot; named Kate Finn, then a 34-year-old Venice, Calif., yoga instructor,whose descent began as an...</summary>
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<p>Back in 2001, I wrote a story on orthorexia - an obsession with "healthy" eating - for <em>The Chicago Tribune</em>. I interviewed a "recovering orthorexic" named Kate Finn, then a 34-year-old Venice, Calif., yoga instructor,whose descent began as an experimentation with the raw foods lifestyle and led her a hospital psychiatric wards eating-disorder unit, where she as admitted at 5 foot 8 and 85 pounds.</p>

<p>Kate started out innocently enough, a moderately healthy vegan who ate no animal products, ample vegetables and lots of junk food. Following the advice of friends, who proselytized about the increased clarity and energy that come with eating only uncooked vegetables, fruits, nuts and whole grains, she became a raw-foodist. Though the stomach problems that had long plagued her relented, she began to lose weight. </p>

<p>Next, an acupuncturist diagnosed her with a "weak spleen" and suggested she eschew all raw foods in favor of cooked vegetables, soups and even meat. Talk about mixed messages. One man urged Finn to eat nothing but sprouted wheat. Another time, while working at a health food co-op, she asked one customer how she was doing. "She said, 'Not well. Yesterday I ate some cooked food.'" </p>

<p>Kate told me her "Aha!" moment came when she spotted an article on orthorexia in a yoga magazine. "I was like, 'Wow, that's what I have,'" she recalled.</p>

<p>Sadly, Kate is no longer with us. She died from complications of orthorexia. From her obsession with eating "too healthy."</p>

<p>Back in September, I introduced the concept of orthorexia <a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2008/09/when_no_food_is_right_1.html"target="new">here </a>and asked if this was something you'd ever struggled with. The majority - 58% - said "There have been times when I became way too focused on eating only "good" foods, but it never got out of control." Which made me feel happy and relieved...and yet some of the comments were concerning. </p>

<p>One reader said, "I once invoked a sugar, wheat and dairy embargo, it started under the guise of an experiment for my health, but once the pounds starting dropping off my motivation changed rather swiftly...it made me a little crazy to be so deprived, I'd spend my evenings wandering the aisles of my local supermarket, gazing longingly at all the forbidden fruit, while feeling all smug and superior to those who didn't have my self control." </p>

<p>Another said of her strict control over everything that went into her body, "People would always tell me 'You are the healthiest eater I know!' and 'I wish I had your self-control!"' and 'I bet your intestines look like brushed steel!' But there are real costs, both physically, mentally and socially with orthorexia. Even though my weight never got freakishly low, I still lost my period and had severe vitamin deficiencies. I was tired all the time. Plus I couldn't eat cake at my kids' birthday parties! Who wants to live like that?"</p>

<p>I'm so glad she summed it up with that moment of clarity. When eating begins to interfere with your life, monopolize your time or dictate how "good" or "pure" you feel, there's a problem. You wanna go organic? Fine. Cutting out dairy and wheat? I understand. But when it gets to the point where you've cut out milk and wheat AND eggs, cheese, soy, corn, oats, bananas, avocados, broccoli, tuna, apples, butter, spinach, oregano, tomatoes and more (as did one patient of a doctor I interviewed on this topic for the <em>Tribune</em>), clearly you are not in a "healthy" place anymore.</p>

<p>I'll be posting my <em>Today Show </em>segment on this topic shortly - both myself and iVillage nutritionist <a href="http://madelynfernstrom.ivillage.com/health/2008/11/6_warning_signs_of_problem_eat.html"target="new">Madelyn Fernstrom </a> are being interviewed. Hope you tuned in and can join the discussion here!</p>

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    <title>TTFN - Today Show tomorrow!</title>
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    <published>2008-11-13T11:44:29Z</published>
    <updated>2008-11-13T11:47:26Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Blogging before sunrise, catching a plane to NY. If you&apos;re in front of a TV, I&apos;ll be on tomorrow (Friday) morning, I *think* in the 9 o&apos;clock hour, talking about the obsession with eating healthy. Back to ya soon. Enjoy...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Blogging before sunrise, catching a plane to NY. If you're in front of a TV, I'll be on tomorrow (Friday) morning, I *think* in the 9 o'clock hour, talking about the obsession with eating healthy.</p>

<p>Back to ya soon. Enjoy your days and pray I'm not sitting next to a snorer or a chatterbox - this lady needs to catch a few Zs. Blinged-out neck brace in place, of course. </p>

<p>x,<br />
Leslie</p>]]>
        
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    <title>Dear Dan, I&apos;m sorry I almost bit off your upper lip yesterday morning...</title>
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    <summary>11/12/08 Dear Dan, I&apos;m sorry I almost bit off your upper lip yesterday morning. It was an accident, I swear. As I was washing off our new red seedless grapes, popping those juicy jewels into my mouth, I wanted to...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>11/12/08</p>

<p>Dear Dan,</p>

<p>I'm sorry I almost bit off your upper lip yesterday morning. It was an accident, I swear. As I was washing off our new red seedless grapes, popping those juicy jewels into my mouth, I wanted to share them with the man I love. I called you over and was just being spontaneous when I softly held that quarter-sized grape between my teeth, pursed my lips and offered you to take a bite. Then, when you did, I got so excited that my mind roamed to my Happy Place and I didn't realize I was actually tearing into your soft, beautiful Angeline Jolie-esque upper lip. Sure, I was momentarily puzzled that the grape was so difficult to bite through but I'm not one to back down from a challenge. Thank you for screaming and only pelting me with three grapes in your agony and frustration. It could have been worse.</p>

<p>But you know what? <em>You're </em>the one who asked me to help you incorporate more fruits and veggies into your diet! I learned it from watching you! I was just trying to sneak some antioxidants into our morning Veteran's Day foreplay. Can you blame a gal? And besides, did you learn nothing from the Tongue-Biting Incident of 2006? When we had a picnic in Lincoln Park and, under the warm summer sun, you offered me a bit of your pickle (heh). Loving salt, and you, I accepted, and then proceeded to actually bite a small chunk of your tongue off. And I swallowed it. The romantic in me likes to reflect on that moment and <del>tune out your spider monkey-like shrieking</del> think "You became a part of me that day." But the gouge that remains in your tongue to this day should serve as a reminder that I am not to be trusted. I am clumsy and flailing and my mind wanders. I have problems focusing on the task at hand, which, as you pointed out this morning between man sobs, is the likely culprit behind my countless falls, spills, tumbles, bruises and bike accidents.</p>

<p>As my wise friend Alyson said when I recalled the grape incident to her: Fool Dan once, shame on Leslie. Fool Dan twice, shame on Dan. You should be more careful when accepting/offering food-and-kissing-related invitations in the future.</p>

<p>But I still love you.</p>

<p>xo,<br />
leslie</p>]]>
        
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    <title>What do boobs, butts and toes have in common?</title>
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    <published>2008-11-10T22:58:38Z</published>
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    <summary>(drum roll...) Cleavage!! Would you check out the, um, personality on Salma?! Yep, cleavage is the topic of the day and I wanna hear what you&apos;ve got to say. This is for an upcoming Today Show segment on the topic...</summary>
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<p>Cleavage!!</p>

<p><img alt="medium_salma_hayek_cleavage_03.jpg" src="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/medium_salma_hayek_cleavage_03.jpg" width="240" height="318" /><br />
<em>Would you check out the, um, personality on Salma?!</em></p>

<p>Yep, cleavage is the topic of the day and I wanna hear what you've got to say. This is for an upcoming <em>Today Show</em> segment on the topic (how much do I love that my work involves getting asked to speak about boobs on national TV? Seriously, I have the breast job ever.</p>

<p>Take a look down at your girls, then type out your thoughts about cleavage. Are you personally pro or against? What about when you see another woman in a bar, showing off two heaving mounds - desperate and unattractive or sexy and confident? How about at work? Remember when everyone freaked out over <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/07/19/AR2007071902668.html"target="new">Hillary Clinton showing some crack?</a> Does age matter? Most important, tell me what makes you decide whether to flash 'em or stash 'em.</p>

<p>Comment me.</p>

<p>Oh, and JUST KELLY, STACEY (Rampant Whistler) and GEMFIT - email me at leslie@lrdiaries.com  Sweet oatmeal dreams to you...</p>

<p>x,<br />
Leslie "34 B Display Case" Goldman</p>

<p>PS I swallowed a drop of phytoplankton today. On purpose. Don't ask.</p>]]>
        
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    <title>The Big O</title>
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    <published>2008-11-09T18:20:10Z</published>
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    <summary>I done died and gone to oatmeal heaven. It&apos;s an Oatmealpalooza Fest in my tummy and I. Am. Freaking. Out. Where I am: Quaker Ground Zero Headquarters in Chicago What time it is: Saturday morning Who I&apos;m with: A whole...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I done died and gone to oatmeal heaven. It's an Oatmealpalooza Fest in my tummy and I. Am. Freaking. Out.</p>

<p><strong>Where I am:</strong> Quaker Ground Zero Headquarters in Chicago<br />
<strong>What time it is: </strong>Saturday morning<br />
<strong>Who I'm with: </strong>A whole slew of the most fabulous bloggers, including <a href="http://mizfitonline.com/"target="new">MizFit </a>and Stephanie from <a href="http://www.backinskinnyjeans.com/"target="new">Back in Skinny Jeans</a>. <br />
<strong>Why:</strong> Quaker Living Proof Weekend</p>

<p>Well, it appears my lifetime dedication to spreading the word about oatmeal-in-a-Ziplock has paid off and I am Living Large with Quaker. Last night, the people behind <a href="http://tommcmahon.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/quakeroo2.gif"target="new">The Man </a>(code name: Larry, it's just been revealed) put us up in the gorgeous, swanky Hard Rock Hotel in Chicago (John Lennon stared down at me as my husband and I snoozed, with an unreal view of Michigan Avenue out the floor-to-ceiling windows.)</p>

<p>BTW I'm not the savviest when it comes to technology - I still use a LeClic camera and an abacus, for example - so for up-to-the-minute pics, check out <a href="http://www.katheats.com/"target="new">Kath Eats Real Food</a>...she's doing a really nice job chronicling this shindig. How <em>does </em>she make a bowl of oatmeal and a spoonful of organic PB look so freaking delish?</p>

<p>So, right now we're in the Quaker building, listening to a woman named Shelley Haus who has the coolest job title ever - Director of Breakfast. We were just treated to <em>the </em>phattest oatmeal buffet, with all sorts of oats, toppings (brown sugar, cinnamon, golden raisins, strawberries, blueberries, walnuts, heaven), and fresh, sliced fruit. So my most ideal breakfast, basically. The bloggers are heated up right now, talking about the high amounts of sugars and fake additives in some of the newer oatmeal bars. I'm trying to stay a little quiet - not like me at all - because my neck is not doing so swell in this chair (although it is made from recycled soda bottles, so at least I'm eco-chic in my pain.) We all have personal laptops and mine is propped up on a box of Quaker shredded cereal. The air feels full of innovation, excitement and health-consciousness, and I feel like the Quaker people are taking our comments to heart. We've been treated to a slew of brand spanking new products, and got some cool oaty info, such as:</p>

<p>*Oatmeal is recession-proof: 22 cents per serving; 36 cents for a big, overflowing, hug-from-the-inside bowl (my description - and no, I was not paid to say that)</p>

<p>*A part of the oat is called the Endosperm, which makes me giggle. </p>

<p>*Americans throw down 346 million bowls oatmeal/year - I estimate 100 million of those are consumed by the oat-obsessed bloggers in this room alone - and if you took all the tubes of Quaker sold in a year and unwrapped them, they would stretch around world TWICE.</p>

<p>*80% of US households have oatmeal in their cabinets at any given time</p>

<p>*Steel cut oatmeal is THE SAME THING as quick or instant oats! So get of yer high horses, steel cut devotees. They all have the same exact nutritional value: Instant or quick oats are just smushed steel cut oats.</p>

<p>More soon...In the meantime, Quaker wants to know if their oatmeal has worked for you - weight loss, cholesterol lowering, healthy snacking, boosting whole grain intake, saving money, making your kids happy. Leave a comment below, either telling me that OR what your favorite way to enjoy oatmeal is, and <del>I'll land you a nationwide commercial</del> pass the info along PLUS three randomly chosen commenters will get hooked up by me via Quaker, with details to come...</p>]]>
        
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    <title>Raise your hands if another woman&apos;s face was two inches from your naked butt yesterday! (raises hand)</title>
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    <published>2008-11-04T19:57:02Z</published>
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    <summary>Yeah. So, I went for my annual skin exam today (oh, Banner Day Camp, how I long for those carefree days of lifeguarding while wearing nothing but a yellow and pink tie-dye monokini, SPF 0.50 Hawaiian Tropic oil, and a...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Yeah. So, I went for my annual skin exam today (oh, Banner Day Camp, how I long for those carefree days of lifeguarding while wearing nothing but a yellow and pink tie-dye monokini, SPF 0.50  Hawaiian Tropic oil, and a smile.) My dermatologist - flanked by a medical student - was charged with the uber-fun job of inspecting every inch of my body, using this microscope-type thing that looks like the tool jewelers use to appraise diamonds. I was naked, save for a faded blue medical gown, open in the back, a <em>way </em>old gray Victoria's Secret thong that I got for free and - I kid you not - fuschia socks that scream "Muy Sexy" in silver lame thread (a gift from my friend Michelle in NY...we have a tradition of surprising each other with the ugliest socks possible whenever we meet up.)</p>

<p>Anyway, the doc was checking me out. Shoulders? Good. Under the boobs? All clear. Bikini line? Stellar. </p>

<p>Then: "Turn around, please."</p>

<p>Oh, sweet Jesus. The open-in-back hospital gown looks good on nobody, especially with an unflattering strand of white elastic going up the butt. But she's a doctor, and she's seen worse. Right?</p>

<p>"Nothing behind the neck," she reported. "Upper back looks good." And then, the direction of her voice changed, sounded farther away. She was crouched down, staring at my butt. And she said, I swear to Gawd, "I just need to spread your butt cheeks and make sure everything's OK in there."<br />
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<p>My takeaway: Dermatologists deserve to get paid heaps of money. They have to look at and often touch horrid things all day long, from zits to boils to rashes. And they have to pull apart butt cheeks to check for melanoma. You know, in case anyone's been baking in a tanning booth with their arse spread wide open.</p>

<p>Does this remind anyone of the time I went for a citrus-sugar body wrap and the aesthetician asked me <a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2007/04/tata.html"target="new">if I wanted her to massage my breasts?</a></p>

<p>Why do these things always happen to me? And why do I always feel compelled to broadcast them to the world via the blogged word?</p>

<p>I know! Because if I can't laugh at myself, where would I be? Seriously.</p>

<p>My end result: No butt crack skin cancer. And yes, she made me remove my Muy Sexy socks so she could check between my toes for suspicious moles. Doc be <em>thorough</em>. </p>

<p>And now, Reader Meet-Up News!</p>

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<em>Oatmeal + Vodka = Best of both worlds</em></p>

<p>The <a href="http://theweightinggame.ivillage.com/dietfitness/2008/10/a_day_in_the_life.html"target="new">Quaker Blogger Convention is this weekend </a>and a slew of us bloggers are holding a meet-up for readers! Two meet-ups, actually. Here are the details:</p>

<p><strong>Saturday night meet-up: </strong><br />
Nov. 8 at 10pm<br />
<a href="http://chicago.metromix.com/bars-and-clubs/hotel_bar/rocks-loop/336899/content"target="new">Hard Rock Hotel Rocks Lounge</a><br />
230 N. Michigan Ave, Chicago, IL 60601</p>

<p><strong>Sunday morning meet-up:</strong><br />
Nov. 10am<br />
Panera Bread<br />
635 N. Fairbanks Court, Chicago, IL 60611</p>

<p>Who else will be at either/both (besides moi, who will be at the Saturday night event)?:</p>

<p>Steph of <a href="http://www.backinskinnyjeans.com/"target="new">Back in Skinny Jeans</a><br />
Carla of <a href="http://mizfitonline.com/"target="new">MizFit Online</a><br />
Roni of <a href="http://ronisweigh.com/"target="new">Roni’s Weigh</a><br />
Jennette of <a href="http://PastaQueen"target="new">PastaQueen</a><br />
Tanya of <a href="http://www.iateapie.net/"target="new">I Ate a Pie</a><br />
Lisa of <a href="http://workoutmommy.com/"target="new">Workout Mommy</a><br />
Monique of <a href="http://www.bfdblog.com/"target="new">Big Fat Deal</a><br />
Amy of <a href="http://blog.superhealthykids.com/"target="new">Super Healthy Kids</a><br />
Jason of <a href="http://twit2fit.ning.com/"target="new">Twit2Fit</a><br />
Anne Marie of <a href="http://www.thismamacooks.com/"target="new">This Mama Cooks</a><br />
Jenna of <a href="http://eatliverun.com/"target="new">Eat Live Run</a><br />
Kath of <a href="http://www.katheats.com/"target="new">Kath Eats</a><br />
Lyn of <a href="http://escapefromobesity.blogspot.com/"target="new">Escape from Obesity</a><br />
Alanna of <a href="http://kitchen-parade-veggieventure.blogspot.com/"target="new">A Veggie Venture</a><br />
Anne of <a href="http://www.elasticwaist.com/"target="new">Elastic Waist</a></p>

<p>I'd check their blogs if you're interested in, I dunno, actually talking to someone other than myself - some of us can only do Saturday night, others are up for brunch, most are doing both. It will be so much oatmealy, martini-soaked fun and I hope some WG readers can make it!</p>

<p>Off to New Joisey to give a talk to The College of New Jersey's Bod Squad!</p>

<p>X,<br />
Leslie</p>

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    <title>Kate Winslet stands up against Photoshopping. Oh, and WE HAVE A NEW PRESIDENT!</title>
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    <summary>Remember this: Back in 2005, Kate Winslet appeared on the cover of GQ looking like a much taller, thinner version of herself. Being her normal kickass self, the actress came forward and spoke out against the Photoshopped image (GQ admitted...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Remember this:</p>

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<p>Back in 2005, Kate Winslet appeared on the cover of <em>GQ </em>looking like a much taller, thinner version of herself. Being her normal kickass self, the actress came forward and spoke out <em>against </em>the Photoshopped image (<em>GQ </em>admitted they digitally altered her bod), saying, “I actually have a Polaroid that the photographer gave me on the day of the shoot… I can tell you they’ve reduced the size of my legs by about a third. For my money it looks pretty good the way it was taken.”</p>

<p>*Love*</p>

<p>Now she's on the cover of <em>Vanity Fair </em>(full disclosure: I do not read this magazine, making it one of about just three mags I am not hooked on. The others? <em>Kittens and Ammo Monthly </em>and <em>Shorty: The Magazine for Petite Women</em>.) </p>

<p>In <em>VF</em>, Kate (I can call you Kate, right?) says, "I never had huge ambitions - never. I was fat. I didn't know any fat famous actresses. I just did not see myself in that world at all, and I'm being very sincere. You know, once a fat kid, always a fat kid. Because you always think that you just look a little bit wrong or a little bit different from everyone else. And I still sort of have that." </p>

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<em>(As an aside, a <em>Vanity Fair </em>spokesman has admitted to "a minimal amount of retouching" in their cover, and Winslet's publicist said there had been some skin tone correction, but her body had "not been airbrushed at all.")</em></p>

<p>As a formerly chubby girl myself, I can so relate to Kate's  "once a fat kid, always a fat kid" mentality. It stinks but it's often true. When you grow up being teased for your size, not being able to fit into the coolest fashions or being picked last for gym class tee ball...that sticks with you. Even though many of us outgrow childhood chub (thanks, Synthroid!), we can have a hard time reconciling our past and remembering that just because stupid Matt Idiotberg called us a cow in fourth grade doesn't mean we aren't beautiful and strong now, regardless of our weight. </p>

<p>I'm thankful for a celeb like Kate who stands up for women everywhere, really, by breaking the secret society-like silence surrounding Photoshop and for loving her body as it is, unstretched and unmanipulated.</p>

<p>PS On a totally unrelated note, my local Starbucks manager bestowed upon me this morning a <em>free </em><a href="http://www.usatoday.com/money/industries/food/2008-10-12-starbucks-gold-card_N.htm"target="new">Starbucks Gold card </a>- weee!  Every store manager received three gold cards to hand out to customers deemed the best. And I was one. Looks like camping out at the Handicapped table every day for the last five years has finally paid off! But I'm still bringing my Quaker oatmeal-in-a-bag. I will never stop that, not for all the 10% discounts in the world...</p>

<p>PS Part 2 How absolutely <em>unreal </em>was last night? Tears and champagne were flowing over here...<br />
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